Contributed by Info Guru Lindsay Shugerman

Your new girlfriend is great. You two are having so much fun together, and it’s only been a few weeks since you got together. But now Christmas is coming up, and you want to get her a present. But you’re not sure what to get.

You want something she’ll like, but you don’t want get a present that’s too serious. And you don’t want to pick something that’s a better choice for a casual friend, either. I get it! Here are some popular Christmas gift ideas for a new girlfriend that will say you care without saying too much, too soon.

10. A carriage or sleigh ride

A moonlight ride in a sleigh or carriage is one of those just-right surprises for a new relationship. If it’s chilly out, bring a soft throw to keep the two of you warm. And if the sleigh or carriage company allows, bring a thermos of gourmet hot cocoa, too.

9. A movie you love

Treat your sweetie to a movie night with all the trimmings. Start with a movie you love and think she will, too. Add a beautiful basket of movie night goodies, then turn down the lights and enjoy the film together.

8. Cute socks

If your girlfriend wears patterned socks, play on the theme of a Christmas stocking by filling hers with cute, fun socks. There are so many choices in fun women’s socks, like movie characters, works of art, cartoons, animals, foods, and even books. Pick a bunch that match her favorite things, tie them up in pretty ribbons and stuff that stocking full!

7. Stuffed animal

They may not be useful or practical, but most of us love stuffed animals. Show up with a big, soft teddy bear, a silly-looking plush monkey or an adorable stuffed rabbit and she will melt.

6. Wallet

Buying a new girlfriend…or any woman…a new purse is tricky unless you know exactly what she wants (and I do mean EXACTLY!) But a wallet is a different story. It’s much easier to pick out a wallet or wristlet that coordinates with the purse she already carries. If you’re not sure about matching her look from memory, sneak a couple of pictures of her purse and compare them to the wallets you see. That will make it easy to see what matches and what doesn’t.

5. Bracelets

When it comes to gifts, there is jewelry, and then there is JEWELRY. When a relationship is new, you probably shouldn’t go anywhere near the JEWELRY end of the spectrum which includes expensive watches, gold necklaces, and….diamond rings (gulp!) Instead, look for something that works better for a new couple. Pretty bracelets are a wonderful choice. Go for colorful bangles, pretty beaded bracelets, or a simple charm bracelet (with one or two charms to start it out, of course.)

4. Mittens or gloves

Make sure her hands are as warm as her heart by giving her a pair of cozy mittens or gloves. There are gloves available in every color and style imaginable, including gloves designed to allow her to text without taking off her gloves, so take your time and find the right pair for her. (If gloves don’t seem like enough of a gift alone, fill them with other small gifts like in the classic kids’ book, The Mitten.)

3. Tickets to a concert

A pair of tickets to her favorite performer or band is a winning choice as a gift whether your relationship is new or well on its way to be a forever-thing. Tuck them into a CD case to surprise her!

2. Car accessories

A gift that personalizes her car is another popular choice. Consider floor mats that feature her favorite team or a soft and cozy steering wheel cover to keep it comfortable in cold and hot weather.

1. Headphones

Ear buds are okay for every day use, but when it comes to really listening to music, they just don’t do the job. Let her enjoy her favorite tunes in full, rich sound with a pair of good headphones. Look for a comfortable pair that provides excellent sound without adding too much weight.

When it comes to the best Christmas gift ideas for a new girlfriend, think about what activities, colors, music and styles she likes. If you pay attention, you’re sure to spot the perfect first Christmas together gift for her.